yesterday I managed to extract the rear drive. Sadly it is really needed to extract the nut and the special nut to replace both the seal and the O-ring. Luckly I found someone with the right tools, so tonight we will try to replace them. I also checked the play on the components, the universal joint had no play in there the same goes for the gears. When looking at the splines it also still looked good. I am still wondering what could have caused this fail as the breather was also working fine. Maybe that the ruber/plastic was just old and brittle? or that some debris got near the axis. Could it also have something to do with the fact that I was driving in the mountains instead of normally driving roads in the Netherlands, I would not think so as it only happened on day 3 (it was quite a bit warmer that day 28 degrees)?