So far two right things I hear,throttle open slightly or throttle advancer on, should start right away. Cycling kill switch will allow fuel pump to run for a few seconds until the ecu sees that there is no oil pressure at which time it will power down the relay. My experience stems from working on many bikes and has been that if you let the pump cycle a few times as Al (I think) suggested using the kill switch you may get instant starts. I usually start V11s by turning the key on and hitting the start button immediatley, if they've been sitting an extended period then I will sometimes use Al's method. The advantage of hitting the button right away is that the pump doesn't stop when cranking. Some bikes are losing their memories, from low battery voltage I assume, and therefore take a few cranks to find the cam position, check those relays again. Check the sparkplug caps, they are notorius for open circuits that will fire when there is enough voltage present but won't fire at low voltages, such as when a battery is slightly low after sitting for a week or two. I have replaced the entire wire with Magnecor wires with great results, same resistance as the stock wires with caps but much better at longterm survival. I have replaced plug caps on brand new bikes before delivery, rough idle, inability to synch throttle bodies etc. are some of the symptoms. Check those caps!!!
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